Monday, June 17, 2013

Fathers Day

Hello Blogsville.. Hows Y`all doing? How was your weekend?? Mine was okay.. :)

1st Of, Happy Fathers Day to all Men. As we all know,it was Fathers day over the weekend and besides the pleasantries i felt something wasn't right..when it was Mother`s day,all we said was happy Mother`s day.. we did not classify or categorize.

 Now i do not support the idea of men not taking up their responsibilities as fathers, i just don`t like how we have to stay judging on the day we are suppose to commend them for being brave enough to be fathers in the 1st place.

 Yesterday i saw statuses like ..Happy Fathers day to all responsible Fathers out there,Happy Fathers day to all those who are bold enough to look after their kids and not run away blah blah ..

 I feel its not fair to do this.. its father`s day. Happy Father`s  Day. Simple. don`t add anything,we have all year to bash them,all year.!!!! why do this on a day thats suppose to celebrate them ?? we only know about the bad decision they made but not the options they had.. Even those who had their father`s pics as DP,Avi`s and those who wrote thesis about how good their father is have their moments. Show me someone with a Perfect Dad and i`ll show you a Liar. Last time i checked,the only perfect father is God & even Jesus at some point said "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?" Matt: 27:46. 

 Those so called bad fathers could have asked for a blow job.. could have worn a condom or resort to any other  preventive measure just so u don`t get here so please now that you are here,be kind enough to celebrate them for just 1 day.. find it in you to forgive. Um yea i know some women had to give birth to kids conceived out of Rape. No amount of sorry can take away the Scar or Trauma caused by this inhuman act.

 Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then:respect; if honor, then honor says Romans 13:7.

So please if u are part of the judging crew, please stop coz i know somewhere in the bible or which ever religious book u use,we were asked not to judge. If you are not religious like some of us,its still not Cool. Please Stop.
 
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25 comments:

  1. EmaleeciousJune 17, 2013 at 2:51 PM

    Hi Didi,
    Thanks for sharing this. I am actually guilty of saying the above. I just said it not out of spite really, but just because there are really a number of dads who do not deserve to be called by the title. But I see it from your own perspective now. Indeed, its a day set out to celebrate them, and celebrate them we will.
    Happy (Belated) Fathers Day to you dear.

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  2. ToinJune 17, 2013 at 3:06 PM

    Alright, point noted. Happy father's day to you Twinny *hugs*

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  3. maggiepeggJune 17, 2013 at 5:46 PM

    Hello handsome, you are totally right especially the part where you said we shouldn`t judge them for whatever they might have done but just celebrate them for that one day. Good one Didi :)
    Kisses

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  4. Molara BrownJune 17, 2013 at 7:56 PM

    I so guilty of this and should I say unapologetic about it.

    Happy belated father's day all the same

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  5. PriscyJune 18, 2013 at 10:59 AM

    well noted! means we can "yab" the irresponsible one's any other day but not on father's day.lol... I hear you!

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  6. A-9ja-GreatJune 18, 2013 at 5:13 PM

    This post makes soooo much sense.You know men always receive the bashing.I like what you said here "we only know about the bad decision they made but not the options they had.."

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    1. DiDiJuly 9, 2013 at 1:50 PM

      Oh yea.. men get bashed for everything..

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  7. Becqui NicholasJune 19, 2013 at 9:18 AM

    You are so right about this,DiDi.. We should stop judging them for the wrong they've done..

    Happy Belated Father's Day to you...

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  8. @ilolaJune 19, 2013 at 8:07 PM

    Happy father's day in arrears

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  9. Jyoti MishraJune 21, 2013 at 4:36 PM

    I had fun on Father's Day..
    me and my little brother surprised my papa with a gift..

    I agree with you why all bashing is concentrated at males.. it shouldn't be. I hope you had good one too DiDi

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    1. DiDiJuly 9, 2013 at 1:48 PM

      Yes i did have a good 1 Jyoti.. Nothing extraordinary happened though.

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  10. DobbyJune 29, 2013 at 3:29 PM

    Point noted! Happy belated fathers day.

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  11. Sisi YemmieJuly 22, 2013 at 1:15 AM

    i know i'm late on this post aha, just stopping by to say hey!

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    1. DiDiAugust 1, 2013 at 5:30 PM

      Hiya... better late than Never SiSi Yemmie.. :)

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  12. Rhapsody PhoenixJuly 29, 2013 at 12:42 AM

    Blessings Darling.
    I swore i was here before to say hello and check in though I don't see my finger prints? Oh well. I am here now. Darling please post something new I know you have been doing a lot for the summer, what's happening hmmmmm?

    Have a great week.

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    1. DiDiAugust 1, 2013 at 5:29 PM

      umm Nothing really.. just counting down till the blog mini vacay is over.

      have a great week too Rhapsody.

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    2. Rhapsody PhoenixAugust 11, 2013 at 5:28 PM

      hmmmm, alright darling, you have a splendid week.

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