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From Victoria To The World.

Hello Everybody & Welcome To 2015,I Pray Its Going To Be Fruitful,Prosperous & Awesome.. How have y`all been & how was your festive season?? I`ve been good and upto alot of Indiana Jones / Christopher Columbus stuff which i must say is fun . Anyway,to the main post. From Victoria to The World. A little intro, Victoria is an awesome,loving,kind,caring and umm sometimes a pain in your behind young lady who despite her tender age can be really deep at times. She composed this as my New year Present and i thought i shared with the WORLD.


                                           

  Life Is An Oblivion Journey,We Will Never Truely Know What

Awaits Us Around The Corner Nor Will We Ever Stop Chasing 

Our Hopes & Dreams .Unfortunately For Many,These Desires 

We Long For Die Before Our Souls,Leaving Us Lost & Seeking.

 I`ve Realized That 1 of The Most Remarkable Or Most Valuable 

Things ln Life Are The Things We Purchased With Our Hearts

We Must Learn To Appreciate,We Must Learn To Fight Through 

Our Failures & Deceit .As Breathing Creatures,We Are Rich.

Some Say Life is Not a Race,Yet We all Running.Only God

Knows Why. The Rest Is Still Unwritten Or Maybe There Is No

Finish Line For The Weak.

Victoria Ama Okai.

Her New Year Message To The WORLD.

Once Again,Welcome To 2015.

I`m Ghost.

Life.

Life Is Like a Cup Of Coffee.

A Group Of Alumnis, Highly Established In Their Careers,

Got Together To Visit Their Old University Professor.

Their Conversation Soon Turned Into Complaints About

Stress In Work & Life.

Offering His Guests Coffee,The Professor Went To The Kitchen

And Returned With a Large Pot Of Coffee & An Assortment Of

Cups:Porcelain,Plastic,Glass,Crystal,Some Expensive,Some

Exquisite,Telling Them To Help Themselves To The Coffee.

When All The Students Had a Cup Of Coffee In Hand,

The Professor Said If You Noticed,All The Nice Cups

Have Been Taken Up,Leaving Behind The Plain &

Cheap Ones.

While It Is Normal For You To Want The Best For Yourselves,

That Is The Source Of Your Problems And Stress.

Be Assured That The Cup Itself Adds No Quality

To The Coffee.

In Most Cases It Is Just More Expensive And In Some Cases

Even Hide What We Drink.

What All The Students Really Wanted Was The Coffee Not The Cups,

But Consciously Went For The Best Cups & Then Began

Eyeing Each Other`s Cups.

Now Let's Consider This The Professor Said:

Life Is The Coffee.The Jobs,Money And Position In Society

Are The Cups.

They Are Just Tools To Hold And Contain Life And The Type Of Cup We 

Have Does Not Define Nor Change The Quality Of Life We Live.

Sometimes, By Concentrating Only On The Cup,We Fail To  Enjoy The Coffee.

Savor The Coffee.

Not The Cups.

The Happiest People Don't Have The Best Of Everything,The Just Make The Best Of Everything.

Live Simply.

Love Generously.

Care Deeply.

Speak Kindly.

Peace Out, I'm Ghost.

 Author:Unknown

Death.

After Birth,We Begin Our Journey

Our Journey Towards Death.

 To Me,Life Is a Never Ending

Soap Opera.

Where Everything Recycles

Where Occurrences Repeat

But Different Solutions Are Given

To These Occurrences.

We Are Just Actors And Actresses 

In a Recycling Universe 

Who Make Entrances & Exits

At Different Points

In This Never Ending Soap Opera.

Our Scripts Are Different 

Our Entry Points & Roles Are Different

But 1 Thing Is Certain,

That`s Our Journey Towards An

Important Part Of This Recycling Process

Death.

During Our Journey We Face Alot Of Challenges

We Meet Alot Of People

Have Happy & Sad Moments 

  Learn Alot Of Lessons

Make Countless Decisions

 Decisions On How They Affect Us

But Sometimes We Forget To Do 1 Thing.

Live Life To The Fullest.

This Might Be Due To Helpless Situations

Heart Break,Poverty,Low Self Esteem

To Mention A few...

 As Long As You are still Breathing, Regardless what Situation You Find Yourself In, Always Remember That Life Is a 2 Sided Coin With Pleasure & Pain On Each Side,Which Co-Exist To Create A Balance & That No Matter What You Are Going Through,There Is Hope For a Brighter Tomorrow. 

Please Try,Challenge Yourself.

Stop Existing,Start Living

So You Feel Accomplished After 

You Make That Exit.

Have a Lovely Weekend People. 

I`m Ghost.

Peace.

Victim.

Is a victim just an unfortunate person who suffers from adverse circumstances?

 Or is a Victim someone who is deceived by their own emotions?

 To Me,a victim is not only the person on the receiving end of the law

A victim can also be a perpetrator.

I see a Victim in all of us

My Father was a victim

My mother was a victim

My brother is a Victim

I am a victim

I`m a victim of my past

But should we allow that to affect what the future holds?

They say in life we are all given options

and people often choose the wrong ones

but if the correct path is blocked,does that not force us

to divert down a different road?

Even when u know that road leads to sudden death

Sometimes i pray things get brighter and better

sometimes the day seems long

If 9 out of the 10 options that we are given are wrong

then whats the chances of us choosing right?

and If we do choose the right options,who says the

right options are gonna choose us??

So we still end up feeling wrong.

so Who is a victim?

The sad thing is,the ones who are meant to be there,guide us,help us and protect us are the ones who end up hurting us the most.

So who is the victim?

The media doesn`t help,most of us are victims of an optical illusion,a material world, what we hope we would have,if we are fighting and competing in rivalry over money and who can have the most assets,what hope do we have?

I`m a victim of my environment,she was a victim of murder.

we are victims of our own lives but today i smile coz if we breathe

we still have a chance,we can all  turn a negative back into a positive so that we don`t have to be victims any longer but VICTORS..

Credit: #Victims

STOP PRAYING. START THINKING.

"FIRST OF I`D LIKE TO SAY I WASN'T PAID TO MAKE THIS POST,NEITHER DO I RECEIVE ANY SORT OF FUNDING FROM ANY ANTI GOVERNMENT AGENCY",THIS MIGHT BE LONG & NOT A FRIENDLY RANT."

Please whenever there is war or tragedy of some sort,why do we resort to praying?? what are you praying for? why pray when those involved are doing it for recognition,monetary gains and for other reasons best known to them.

At the moment All i see is PRAY FOR SOUTH SUDAN,PRAY FOR NIGERIA.. PRAY FOR THIS PRAY FOR THAT!!!! PRAY? that is bullshit. why should i pray for a country who has leaders who are apparently in their right minds and instead of working towards the socio economic growth of their nation resort to fighting over issues that and not worth sweating over. If there are 2 factions struggling for power,instead of fight and kill poor innocent and helpless citizens who can`t even afford 3 square meals or live below a dollar a day.

In Sudan, the protracted civil war-in which close to 2 million persons may have died either from the fighting or from war-related famine and disease since 1983-has been fueled by many countries that have poured weapons and other forms of military assistance into the Horn in recent years, despite the existence of huge cold war-era stocks. They include, among others, China, France, Iran, Iraq, Russia, South Africa, Uganda, and the United States. In the brutal civil war in Burundi, China has shipped arms to the government by sea and rail via Tanzania and Uganda in the mid-1990s, while weapons have been flown straight into Bujumbura airport from Bulgaria and elsewhere even recently. In Iraq, Swiss Pilatus planes were used for military purposes by the Iraqi air force, including in chemical attacks on Kurdish rebels and civilians in 1987-88. In Congo today, Zimbabwan planes and Angolan armor have been deployed on the government's side, while the Ugandan and Rwandan militaries (supplied by the United States, South Africa, and others) have sent heavily armed troops to fight on the side of the rebels.

In all of these wars, governments-along with rebel forces-have been involved in gross violations of human rights and international humanitarian law (also known as the laws of war). In most cases, other governments supplied the weapons to arm these abusive parties, and yet other governments winked at the transshipment of these weapons through their national territories. These governments are, by their acts of commission or omission or by sheer neglect, accessories to the abuses that are being committed. If the abuses rise to the level of war crimes, they may be accessories to war crimes, even genocide.IS THIS NOT ENOUGH LESSON?? AFTER BREAKING OUT YOU GO TO WAR AMONGS NON OTHER THAN YOURSELVES WHILES YOUR LEADERS AND THE WESTERN FRIENDS MAKE MONEY?? THEN I HAVE TO PRAY FOR YOU? NO. I CAN`T DO THAT. IF EVERYBODY REFUSE TO PICK UP A GUN AND THINK ABOUT PEACE,THERE WOULD BE PEACE.

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 Yours Truly,the President of South Sudan.

                            THIS IS THE BITTER TRUTH.THEY DONT GIVE A FUCK.

DO YOU REALLY THINK I SHOULD PRAY WHEN ALL INDICATIONS SHOWS THAT WAR IS BUSINESS AND OTHER PEOPLE BENEFIT WHILES OTHERS  DIE,OTHERS BENEFIT WHILES OTHER PEOPLE BECOME ORPHANS,GET RAPED & KIDS TAKEN AS CHILD SOLDIERS???? NO I WON`T. I WON`T!! IF TRULY THERE IS A GOD,I THINK HE LEFT AFRICA LONG AGO.

WHY DIDN`T CHINA,FRANCE,IRAN,IRAQ,RUSSIA,SOUTH AFRICA "OUR FELLOW BROTHERS" & ALL COUTRIES WHO SUPPLIED WEAPONS FOR THE WAR GO LIKE OH DON`T FIGHT BECAUSE THERE IS A GOD AND HE DOESN`T LIKE THE KILLINGS BLAH BLAH,.???

 YOU NEED AN ANSWER?? I`D GIVE YOU 1. THEY DON`T GIVE 2 FUCKS ABOUT AFRICA,THEY WANT MONEY FOR THEIR OWN NATIONS. ALL THE SO CALLED INVESTORS OR HELPERS OR NGOS ALL MAKE GAINS 1 WAY OR THE OTHER. THIS SAME NATIONS FORM ARMS OF THE UNITED NATION AND AFTER SELLING TO YOU THEY COME AROUND WITH PEANUTS TO FEED WAR VICTIMS AND THEN ASK ME TO PRAY?? FUCK THAT, I HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO WITH MY TIME.

THE SOLDIERS/FIGHTERS DON`T FIGHT FOR FREE TOO. THEY GET PAID TOO AND WELL,THEY RAPE AND KILL INNOCENT PEOPLE.

IF THESE LEADERS REALLY THINK OF THEIR CITIZENS THEY WOULD USE THAT MONEY TO BUILD A NATION WORT LIVING IN. I WON`T PRAY FOR SUDAN.

DO WE ALL REMEMBER  SIERRA LEONE?? DO YOU REMEMBER THE LIMBS CUTTING INCIDENT NAMED "SHORT SLEEVE AND LONG SLEEVE" IF YOU DONT. PLEASE GO AND GOOGLE IT ,MAKE SURE YOU EAT BEFORE YOU DO BECAUSE U MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO. IF U EASILY GET NIGHTMARES I STRONGLY SUGGEST U DONT GOOGLE IT.I`M JUST GOING TO SHARE A FEW IMAGES. LETS NOT FORGET ABOUT THE AFTERMATH OF WARS,WHAT DO THESE MACHINERIES OF WAR GO THROUGH. MOST OF THEM GO MAD.ALL THIS IN THE NAME OF BUSINESS. THE DIAMONDS IN THAT COUNTRY WAS THE MAJOR INTEREST DURING THE WAR JUST INCASE YOU DIDN`T KNOW.

MOST OF THE ARMS WERE SUPPLIED AGAIN BY THE WESTERN COUNTRIES AND SOME AFRICAN LEADERS,1 IS CURRENTLY SERVING JAIL TIME FOR WAR CRIMES AND PARTICIPATION. OUR CHARLES TAYLOR OF LIBERIA.

LETS GO BACK TO THE 1994 RWANDAN GENOCIDE..BEGINNING ON THE 6TH OF APRIL  1994, Hutus began slaughtering the Tutsis in the African country of Rwanda. As the brutal killings continued, the world stood idly by and just watched the slaughter. Lasting 100 days, the Rwanda genocide left approximately 800,000 Tutsis and Hutu sympathizers dead. LONG AND SHORT OF THIS. THE BELGIANS STARTED THE WAR BY DIVIDING THE COUNTRY AND CAUSING ETHNIC OF TRIBAL HATE WHICH I MUST SAY MOST STUPID AFRICANS HAVE A PHD IN. WE ARE ALL 1 PEOPLE U DUMB FUCKS!. ALOT OF PEOPLE WERE KILLED,I WISH THERE IS ANOTHER WORD FOR ALOT COZ ITS NOT DOING JUSTICE HERE. WEAPONS OF ALL SORT,THE MOST POPULAR WAS THE MACHETE WHICH I FOUND OUT WAS FROM OUR LOVING CHINESE AND OH LETS NOT FORGET THE BELGIAN INVOLVEMENT AND ESCAPING WHEN THINGS GOT OUT OF HAND. YOU WANT ME TO PRAY FOR BUSINESS MEN? TO WHO EXACTLY? WHITE JESUS? UM NAH I`D PASS.

 

  
 TO MY FATHERLAND WHICH I`M NOT ENTIRELY PROUD OF AT THE MOMENT. NIGERIA.. WE HAVE THIS BOKO HARAM MENACE. WHICH THE PRESIDENT FROM ALL HIS ACTIONS DOESN`T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT,I DARE SAY EVEN THAT OLU OF IBADAN CARE LESS BECAUSE THIS IS A NATIONAL TRAGEDY.. U CANT JUST GO INTO CELEBRATION..AFTER THIS INCIDENT

PRESIDENT CELEBRATES JUST OR BARELY 24HRS AFTER THE EXPLOSION CAUSING HORRIFIC IMAGES UP THERE..

YOU JUDGE FOR YOURSELF,ALTHOUGH HE AINT FOOLING NOBODY WITH THIS BLOOD DONATION.

SO YEA THATS IS FOR NOW... I WON`T PRAY FOR ANYBODY WHO WON`T THINK.. ALL THE PRAYERS I HAVE DONE FOR THEM IS ENOUGH. I THINK ITS TIME TO THINK AND NOT PRAY ANYMORE. LETS NOT WAIT TILL IT HAPPENS TO US,WHICH I THINK IT IS INDIRECTLY. NO PRAYER AFTER DEATH. WAR IS BUSINESS,THE MORE YOU FIGHT THE RICHER SOME PEOPLE BECOME.THINK ABOUT IT. I`M GHOST.

Seek The Blessing In The Lessons.

I Once Read That Destiny Intertwined Our Paths With Others For a Reason. Some Known To Us,Some Unknown.We Should See Each Person That Does Cross Our Path As a Teacher Coz Whether We End Up With Good Or Bad Experiences,1 Thing Is For Unavoidable.That  Is, The Lessons Learn`t  Based On The Experience We`ve Had Coz Those Lessons Shape Us & Makes Us Wiser. Be Grateful For The Lessons & Always Seek The Blessings In Them.

                                                   Have a Lovely Weekend.

1918 To Eternity.

Soul Mates.

 People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants.
But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is
holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah.Too painful. Soul mates,they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life.

#EatLovePray

The Physics Of The Quest..

A Force In Nature Governed By Law Is Real As The Laws
Of Gravity. The Rule Of Quest Physics Goes With Something Like This.--

---> If You Are Brave Enough To Leave Behind Everything Familiar &

 Comforting Which Can Be Anything From Your House To Bitter Old 

Resentments And Set Out On Truth Seeking Journey,Either Externally 

Or Internally . If You Are Truly Willing To Regard Everything That Happens

 To You On That Journey As A Clue , If You Accept Everyone You Meet

Along The Way As A  Teacher , If You Are Prepared Most Of All To Face 

& Forgive Some Very Difficult Realities About Yourself Then The Truth Will 

Not Be Withheld From You .

#EatLovePray

Fathers Day

Hello Blogsville.. Hows Y`all doing? How was your weekend?? Mine was okay.. :)

1st Of, Happy Fathers Day to all Men. As we all know,it was Fathers day over the weekend and besides the pleasantries i felt something wasn't right..when it was Mother`s day,all we said was happy Mother`s day.. we did not classify or categorize.

Now i do not support the idea of men not taking up their responsibilities as fathers, i just don`t like how we have to stay judging on the day we are suppose to commend them for being brave enough to be fathers in the 1st place.

Yesterday i saw statuses like ..Happy Fathers day to all responsible Fathers out there,Happy Fathers day to all those who are bold enough to look after their kids and not run away blah blah ..

I feel its not fair to do this.. its father`s day. Happy Father`s  Day. Simple. don`t add anything,we have all year to bash them,all year.!!!! why do this on a day thats suppose to celebrate them ?? we only know about the bad decision they made but not the options they had.. Even those who had their father`s pics as DP,Avi`s and those who wrote thesis about how good their father is have their moments. Show me someone with a Perfect Dad and i`ll show you a Liar. Last time i checked,the only perfect father is God & even Jesus at some point said "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?" Matt: 27:46. 

 Those so called bad fathers could have asked for a blow job.. could have worn a condom or resort to any other  preventive measure just so u don`t get here so please now that you are here,be kind enough to celebrate them for just 1 day.. find it in you to forgive. Um yea i know some women had to give birth to kids conceived out of Rape. No amount of sorry can take away the Scar or Trauma caused by this inhuman act.

Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then:respect; if honor, then honor says Romans 13:7.

So please if u are part of the judging crew, please stop coz i know somewhere in the bible or which ever religious book u use,we were asked not to judge. If you are not religious like some of us,its still not Cool. Please Stop.

 

Mic Check..

*Clears cobwebs*

HeLLo Beautiful People.

How  is Everybody??

I`ve been good though,

just been gone for a min.

Postings will commence soon.

I can hear my draft`s sigh of relief.

Liebster Awards.

Hello Blogsville.. Hows everybody doing?? I`m good & been on the Low Low. #westcoaststyle... Now to the business of the day.. I received this award from Morounfoluwa Lukina Akibo. Mucho Gracias Senorita.

 

The Rules...

1.  Thank and link back to the giver. ..Done.

2.  Answer the giver’s questions.

3. Nominate five other blogs with fewer than 200 followers.

4. Ask five questions for one’s nominees to answer.

5.  Post it on your blog.

The Questions..   

1. The one that loves you or the one you love, which would you prefer and why?

Um i`ll choose the ones that love me coz i`m good at loving in return? lets just leave it at that.
 
2. What is your everyday routine? 

Don`t have a fix routine,it all depends on my location,what period of the year it is and who i`m with.
 
3. Who is your best musician and why? 

I don`t have 1,i love music and listen to any kind i find interesting * yes i have a playlist of music in languages i don`t understand.
 
4. Whats your must-have for the day?  My bottles of water.



5. Whats your idea of a perfect day ?  A day i manage to piss everybody off and not get in trouble??. On a more serious note that would be carrying out what my agenda for the day is without stress..


 I Nominate.. 
1. Gretel Almighty
2. Efua Dentaa
3. Enyonam 
4. Yellow SiSi Unspoken.
5. MsJB

My Questions..   
Ps. my questions are gonna be funny/silly coz i don`t think blogsville is ready for my puzzled mind.. enjoy.

1. If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?
2. If swimming is so good for your figure, how do you explain whales?
3. Why do doctors leave the room while you change?
4.Why is it that people say they "slept like a baby" when babies wake up every 2 hours?
5. How do you get off a non-stop flight?




Thanks Once Again   Morounfoluwa Lukina Akibo
  

Note To Self.

 See Life As A Privilege And Not A Right. 

A Pep Talk from Kid President to You.

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